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22 Tips for a Great New Year!!

1.) Smile more…this is a lesson from Amy who always wears an infectious smile!!! (Thanks for that)

Smiles are infectious to you and others.  Wearing a smile, even when there is nothing to smile about can make you feel better.

2.) Smile at someone-bet they’ll smile back at you!

Refer to first point, this is one infection that is good to pass around to others as much as you can!

3.) Write out your to do list, before going to bed.

This is a great way to be organized and to keep thoughts of, “What do I need to do tomorrow?” out of your head while you are trying to fall asleep.

4.) Get a good night’s sleep every night – you will feel so much better the next day

Your body repairs and recuperates itself while sleeping.  It helps you stay healthy and energized.

5.) Ask someone what you can do to help them.

Be a true servant to your fellow people.  No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care…so care for others and express it by asking what they need.

6.) Eat your vegetables-not sometimes….everyday!

Yes, this is what your mom used to say all the time and it was with good reason!  Veggies really are you home doctor. Minerals, vitamins, anti-oxidants…eat many and plenty.

7.) Read more

Take the time to expand your mind and grow your thinking.  I heard that the biggest difference between who you are today and who you will be in 5 years is based on the books you read and the people you know.

8.) Live in the moment

Enjoy everything that life has to offer today.  You never know what will be gone tomorrow so suck it all in and live every moment to its fullest.

9.) Exercise hard

There is no sense in trying to relax while you exercise.  It really defeats the purpose!  When you are done, you have to feel like you have accomplished something, not just have gone through the paces.

10.) Have an attitude of gratitude… be grateful

Everything you have in life should be viewed as a blessing.  Be grateful for even the tough stuff, because it will make you stronger and better when you fight through it.

11.) Take your vitamins

While food is a great source of nutrition, supplementing with vitamins is often necessary.

12.) Don’t put things off

No matter what it is, deal with it at the earliest opportunity.  Nothing gets better with time except wine, so take care of things early to keep them from going bad.

13.) Avoid negative people

Back to good old advice from mom! She always said, “You are judged by the company you keep and they will have an impact on you and how you are viewed by others.” Negative people have the ability to suck the joy right out of you and that defeats everything else you have to be thankful and grateful for.

14.) Drink at least 2 litres of water everyday.

You are made up of so much of the good stuff, replenish it and cleanse yourself.  A spring fed lake has more abundant life in it than a bog.  You want to ensure your lake supports healthy life, not stale and stagnant stink.

15.) Be there for others

There is no greater measure of a person than what they will do for others not on an everyday basis, but when others reach out for you or need you.  Be there for them.  They have asked you to be their support…be it and honour them by helping.

16.) Don’t blame others

Blaming others has become a mantra for so many of the ills that plague our society.  Well, the truth is, YOU control everything that affects you.  The choices we make as individuals plays a great part in everything we are and everything we do.  Sure, bad things happen to good people and often at the hands of others, but how it affects us defines who we are and who has the greatest control in our lives.

17.) Give more than you promise

Be a giver and do so in abundance! Remember, what goes around comes around.  If you give more than is expected or than you said you would, it will be remembered, respected and reciprocated.

18.) Keep it simple

This is the KISS principal.  The harder you make things, the harder they are! Simple right, so don’t make little things complicated. Simple is always best.

19.) Learn from every mistake

We are human and we make mistakes.  Learning from them and knowing not to make the same mistakes again separates the incompetent from the competent.

20.) Forgive others

It is rare that anyone truly does anything to intentionally hurt us.  Forgiveness is compassion, carrying a grudge only leads to misery and hate.   This will eat you alive if you carry it, so let it go!

21.) Forgive yourself

If you are going to forgive others, you have to first forgive yourself.  Be you biggest critic, be your harshest judge, but forgive yourself to heal.

22.) Never give up

Winners never quit, quitters never win.  History is full of incredible examples of people who had every reason to quit and no one would have batted an eye at the decision, but think of how great life is because they never quit. Lincoln, Edison, Bell, Franklin…the list goes on and on. NEVER GIVE UP!!!

 

 

I’m doing everything right…but I’m not seeing results!!

This is one topic that I discuss daily with my clients and friends.

The call or email usually starting with something like, “I don’t know what is going on. I am doing everything perfect and I am not losing weight”

The reality is that can’t be true.

Once I ask a few simple questions the answer is always crystal clear.

What did you have for breakfast?  Nothing.

What did you have for lunch?  Fast food because that’s what everyone at work had.

OK, and you had 3 or 4 chocolates because it’s Christmas and they were there( or short bread or whatever seasonal treat it is).

What did you have for dinner?  You had salad with chicken.  Very good, but the 8pm cookies or chips or other crappy snack…you fill in the blanks.

What did you do on the weekend?  Great time with friends is wonderful, but really, you thought the alcohol you drank was going to get you to your goals when I’ve told you that alcohol is pure sugar???

I am not asking or telling you to be perfect with your eating habits.  I am asking that you actually try and most importantly be honest with yourself.

You can’t wing it.  You need a plan.  You need goals and you need to respect those goals.  You can’t tell me you’ve been doing everything perfectly and when we look at what perfect is…well, it’s not.

It’s simple when you lay it all out for yourself.

When you go grocery shopping, don’t buy junk.  Don’t buy junk and tell yourself that your kids or other family members “need it”.  They need what you need.  Healthy foods!!

Pack your lunch and snacks with healthy choices that help you towards your goals.

Plan what you will have for dinners.  This goes back to the first point of grocery shopping, buy the food you need to make healthy meals….taa daaa!!

This time of year there are lots of sugary, high fat foods around.  You don’t need it and you wont die if you don’t eat it…..read that again…it’s ok to pass on the crap that doesn’t help you.

If fat loss is your goal, then eating foods that are not supportive is simply not an option.

It doesn’t have to be complicated, so stop making it that way and stop with the excuses why you need to have 4 shortbread cookies! The second one tastes the same as the first.

I don’t care if it is the holidays and I don’t care if your friend baked it.  I also don’t care if it is your fav-our-ite kind of chocolate.

If you actually want to get beyond this point in your life you have to stop making excuses!

What I care about is your success and helping you get where you want to be!!

 

Boot Camper of the Month!!

What does it actually take to lose weight?  Yes, the right food and the right exercise but also, and most importantly, the right mindset.

If you go into a new fitness program with the, “been there-done that” attitude, you will never achieve total success.

A number of you have been on the diet roller coaster and have tried every new fitness craze out there, but have you been able to keep the weight off?

Getting clear with your goals is really important and seems to be always overlooked.

When you join boot camp and tell me that you want to “lose weight and tone up” that is just fluff.  There is nothing to that statement and there is nothing to hold you accountable.

Meet Jen.  Jen joined boot camp in the summer and has been diligent at showing up to class giving 110% at every workout.  But she was missing a few key essentials.

Jen booked an appointment with me to have a personalized meal plan done and she has followed it to the letter.

When I asked her specific questions; she had the specific answers.

She knew the amount of weight she wanted to loose.  She knew the size of pant she wanted to be in and she had a timeline.  Goals set, time line determined! She has an upcoming trip that she wants to be in tiptop shape for!

She had specifics.

In the month since Jen has lost over 10 inches.  10 inches!!

She is still moving forward.

She is following her food plan, she is showing up for her workouts, she is still committed because she wants to reach her goal.

But 10 inches for her isn’t good enough.  She wants to achieve her specific goal.

I want to give a huge shout out to Jen!!  Way to go!!!  You are a great role model!  You have a busy, busy life and you still manage to eat the right food and show up to class.

I applaud you for committing to your health and sticking with it.

Jen used the magic formula that I ramble on and on about.  The same magical message that I think many people might miss. Because of its special magical powers, I feel compelled to give it to you all againg, are you ready , because here it is…

Set your realistic goals, with attainable timelines.  Commit to those goals by eating the right foods, in the right amounts at the right times.  Do the right exercise for your goals which is sensible and designed for your needs……Taaadaaaaaaa!!!  Secret revealed yet again!

The difference between most people’s results and Jen’s results are; Jen has listened and when she was tempted with food or offers to go out and blow off boot camp -she stayed the course, considered her goals, measured what was the offers and food would do to her goals and look….10 inches later she is almost at her goal!

10 inches people, that’s a lot.

Again, way to go Jen!  I am so super proud of you.  You are a testament that even busy people can make and eat the right food and find an hour a day to show up at boot camp!

Now it’s your turn everyone.  Make a commitment to yourself; set a specific goal (not a fluffy goal)**.  Specific – what pant size are you in now???? If I could give you a new pair of pants, what size would they be?? And don’t say…”well, I’m a 14/16 now and I would be happy with size 12″ NO YOU WOULDN’T!  I bet if you would get down to a size 7/8 you would be doing cartwheels!!!  Don’t settle for easy!

Set your goal, do it now! Post your goal on the blog and that will start your accountability.  Everyone that reads your goal you can be held accountable to.  You put that much commitment into yourself, you bet you’ll hold yourself even more accountable.

Ok, last thing…please do not use this holiday season as an excuse to go off the wagon (food or alcohol).  Smarten up people.  That was my public safety message for this weekend!!

Everyone show Jen some love!  Leave her a comment on the blog!!  I am sooooo proud of you!!  You have joined the ranks of a bunch of really great people who have committed to themselves and changed their lives…Amy, Katrina, Mel and more.

SO, who’s next????

** (A fluffy goal). ie ” I want to lose weight.  I want to get in shape.  I want to feel better.”  Everyone who is overweight wants to lose weight, round is a shape, why do you want to feel better?

Jodi Ann…thanks for sharing your story.

I came across the following blog post response while I was doing some research.  I was grabbed by the writers honesty with herself and, well, by writing it in a public space, her honesty with anyone who reads it.

Take a minute to read what Jodi Ann had to say about denial…

Denial Got Me Here

I was thinking about how I wanted to have pictures so I can look back at where I came from. But then I thought: “How did I get there?” As I was running today (my first 3 minutes straight ever), I felt like I couldn’t do it. I started talking myself out of running. “I can’t do this, I’ve never been able to do this. I’m too tired. I hurt too much.” Then I thought to myself “What hurts exactly?” My knees? Yes, they do hurt, but no more than they did last week. I can’t breathe? Yes, my breathing is labored, but all in all I am still breathing at a quite regular pace. I was ruining it for myself. I was trying to count seconds, I was giving up on myself. That was when the light went off. I was in denial. I was denying that I had worked up to this point. I CAN do this, there is no real reason why not.

After I pushed through that run, I began thinking. I got here because of denial. I was in denial about my weight. I would compare myself to others and say: “It’s not so bad” or “I’m just having a bad day.” When it came to the foods I would eat I would think “I don’t know how to cook healthy.” or “This one burger isn’t going to hurt me.” “I will quit smoking when I’m ready, I still have time.” and “My habit isn’t so bad, I’ve seen worse.” I have been in denial a long time. Well now I see myself. Overweight, but getting skinnier, and unhealthy, but getting healthier.

I KNOW what brought me here and now I know I am not going to DENY myself the right to be the Jodi Ann I want to be anymore.

What a great attitude to have at the beginning of your own journey.

Jodi has decided to transform herself into the person she wants to be by allowing it to happen.  She is doing one of the most important things that you can do for you own success.  She is being HONEST with herself and what got her where she is.

You don’t gain weight by eating healthy and nutritious foods.  You don’t get a body that you become ashamed of by taking complete care of yourself.  You don’t make excuses for yourself if you have nothing to be making excuses for.

I read Jodi’s words, but heard my own voice.  It was me writing that same story.   It was me making those same excuses.  It was me lying to myself for so many years.

There was no way that I was ever going to lose my teenage weight by being less than honest with myself.  There was no way I was ever going to lose pregnancy weight by being less than satisfied with where I was.  The worst thing I could ever do was accept less than I believed I deserved.  It took a long time to mentally decide that I deserved to where I wanted.  It took even longer to do the work required to get there…but is it ever worth it!!

So, where are you?  Are you where you want to be?

What got you where you are and what is going to get where you want to be?

No matter how you got where you are…you can get where you want to be.  It starts with a choice. It gets supported with action and cemented with commitment.

Way to go Jodi Ann! Good for you and I’m cheering for you!!

Here is some motivation for your Monday morning.

Here comes the Christmas Challenge!! Are you in?

Once we hit the Christmas season, most people wait until after New Year’s to start any kind of fitness program with any serious effort. I hope after you read this post and the challenge that comes with it, you’ll see that DURING the holidays is the BEST time of year to make a commitment to a health and fitness program and set your goals for next year.

One thing that always seems to happen moving towards Christmas and New Years is, Excuses…sorry, LAME EXCUSES!!

Excuse: “I’m too busy over the holidays to work out as often as usual.”          Reality : I am choosing to not exercise as often.

Excuse: “I’m more stressed over the holidays, the food is there, so I eat more.”  Reality: I am looking at food to solve my problems

Excuse: “I have at least three parties to attend and then there’s Christmas and New Year’s, so it’s impossible to stay on a diet”                                                        Reality: I am looking for any excuse to go on a food bender and eat recklessly.

Excuse: “No one can tell me not to enjoy myself over the holidays so I’m just going to eat whatever I want.”                                                                                          Reality: You enjoy carrying extra weight.  You enjoy not fitting into your clothes.

Let’s turn this around.  This year can be different!!  Set up a goal to not gain weight….WOW….revolutionary and shocking!!!

It seems a lot of people set their  “goal” to get in worse shape over the holidays. Of course, It’s not consciously set, (at least I hope it’s not!) as few people would intentionally set out to get fatter.

It’s a goal that get sets because there isn’t a positive goal to stop it . Those people seem to convince themselves that it must be just about impossible to stay in shape with everything that is happening over the holiday season, so why bother?

Once the choice has been made, then the excuses can continue:

“I’m not going to deprive myself”, 
“My family will pressure me to eat”, ”Eating properly and finding time to exercise during the holidays makes me crazy” 
“It’s only a few pounds that I’ll gain so I’m going to enjoy myself”, 
“It’s only a couple of weeks, how much damage can happen?” 
“I’ll start in January and lose the weight then.”

As a result of allowing these excuses into your thought process, you set bad goals by default.  Suddenly it’s ok in your mind to work out less, eat more and gain a few pounds.  WHAT??? Why is ok because of the holidays?  What about the alternatives??

But what would happen if you…

SET A GOAL TO GET IN BETTER shape over the holidays?

What would happen if you decided that it was not an all or nothing proposition and that you could set a goal to enjoy the holidays and all it has to offer while getting in better shape at the same time?

What if you decided that your health and your body were the highest priorities in your life, because you realized that can’t enjoy anything else in life, including family or holidays, if you don’t have your health?

Here’s what would happen: You’d get in better shape!

Your expectations will become your reality. What are you expecting? Are you expecting success? Are you expecting to be in better shape after holiday parties, celebrations, banquets, dinners, and desserts?

If not, then why not?

What’s preventing you from enjoying all of the above and still getting in better shape? Do you have a limiting belief, which dictates that it’s one or the other? Could it be that you never set a goal, intention or expectation to do it? Could it be that you’re rationalizing or making excuses?

If so, then I challenge you to change it this year.

Why join the challenge?? What is the reward for joining?  Not gaining weight over the holidays!! Give this Christmas gift to yourself…

Leave a comment that you want to be in the challenge.  You will get weighed/measured so you know where you are starting the holidays at.  We will send the complete Christmas Challenge details, including:

The 12 days of Christmas, 12 Recipes – 12  key exercises to do over the holidays and more stuff that we can’t tell you about yet!

Sign up, let me know, make your commitment to yourself, set your goals and go running towards the holidays.

 

Welcome to Wednesday!

What are your thoughts about Wednesdays?  Do you love the middle day of the  work week, ‘hump day’, the day we start the quick slide to the weekend? Or do you loath the very thought of being at the mid-way point of your week.  Knowing that the weekend chores, schedules, errands are all going to take your breath away again.

On a personal level I love it!! On a professional basis, not so much.  You see this is the day I’ve noticed a lot of my clients encounter speed bumps in their fitness goals or they go completely off track and begin the mental battle of gearing up for next week as new ‘do-over’.

What ever the reason, it’s always a fun challenge to help my friends over the mental block that this day presents for them.

As this is the last Wednesday of October, it’s also the last one of Breast Cancer Awareness Month…and yes boys, this does affect you as well. It’s not just a woman’s issue.  This horrible disease doesn’t pick favourites’ , it doesn’t attack a certain type of person.  It has no conscious and knows no bounds.  But cancer is a disease of imbalance.  It’s a set of cells that have, for lack of a better term…just lost it!

So lets work on something together…balance.  Balance in our fitness, balance in our nutrition, balance in our rest and recovery and balance in our lives.  You body is an amazing machine that loves being in balance.  Poor food choices, lack of exercise and sleep, stress all cause a loss of balance that opens the door to free radicals, molecular oxidation and immune deficiency.  These are pathways to a myriad of disease being allowed to creep in and take hold of us.

Eat the right foods.  Exercise sensibly and with focus. Sleep, rest and relax.  Set goals and stick to them.  Re-set your goals when you find achieving them has become too easy or mundane.

I’m not foolish enough to believe that this type of lifestyle will ward off all disease, but it will certainly give you a much better chance of it.

So on this Wednesday, when you think you might want to shrug off your exercise, or grab that little something that has no nutritional value for a snack or stay up late to watch television….think about everything you have to live for.  Think about your goals and how proud you will be reaching them.  Think about whom you will celebrate your achievements with.

Find your motivation to, “just keep going, just keep going…”

Take a look at this video…motivation? Oh yeah, he found it. Do you know what it is??

 

This is what happens when you take action.

I watched a video over the weekend about a man who documented his journey from being severely obese and un-happy, to running a marathon and changing his outlook in the process.  He found his inspiration along the way.  He found happiness in the “new” life he discovered along the way.  He found the ‘him’ he truly wanted to be, along the way.  When I lost my weight, I found an inspiration to keep me going when times were tough…this man and I shared that same inspiration. What was our inspiration…

Me Before and After

When you’re looking at starting a fitness program, the biggest challenge is the action of getting started.  The desire is there, the want for change is there, the need is there but all the want will never make it happen.  You have to take action!

Gym memberships? Expensive and for some daunting when you look at all the equipment (most of which you will never use).

At home equipment? Expensive and often becomes just a place to hang your laundry.

Both also lack the most important thing that is the secret to success…support.

That’s where Boot Camp comes in and should be what you use to meet your fitness goals.

Not expensive, no confusing or dangerous equipment. Everyone at Boot Camp is there for a common reason…to improve their health.  Each person may have their own reason ie, weight loss, fat loss, strength training,..etc.

Amy Before and After

Every person at Boot Camp is an individual with specific needs, wants, goals and desires.  But they all have two things in common…

1.)  They have taken action

2.)  They support each other

Right now is a great time to come out to Boot Camp.  Right now is a great time to get the support you need.  Right now is a great time to take the action to make your reach your goals.

A new session starts tonight, so come out to Boot Camp, take the action to make the reality you want.

Melody Before and After

Here was the inspiration that I used…happiness.  No matter how many times I told myself and others I was happy, “Just the way I was”, I knew I was lying. My happiness came as I saw the changes in myself.  It’s a lot easier to be happy, than pretend you’re happy.

Notice in all the before and afters…happiness is evident.

See you tonight!!

What are your rewards?

I have talked many times about the importance of goal setting and that you must make your goals both reasonable and appropriate.  For example, an example of an unreasonable and inappropriate goal is to lose 100 pounds in three months.  Commendable yes, but not very realistic.

Excellent goals would be something like; losing 20 pounds in three months or losing two dress sizes in a month. Both are very reasonable and achievable.

Part setting goals is giving yourself a reward at the completion of increments of success.  Here is an example of one of my clients goals chart.

Week One

Increase total push ups by 10%

Increase total crunch’s by 10%

10 minutes at 6mph without stopping

3 pounds

3 overall inches

This is a great goal chart.  Without knowing where she started there is no way to tell by looking at this chart what kind of fitness level she had at the beginning, but we worked this out together and I’ll tell you, she hit each of these targets…and she worked hard to do it.  She combined great nutrition and a real commitment to these goals to do it.

One of the best parts of her goal setting was a great reward.  She was going on a trip and wanted to have a ‘beach body’ that she was happy with.  So when she made these goals, she went shopping and found three bathing suit that she really liked, but admittedly they didn’t like her.

After her goals were set for week two and she hit them, she bought those bathing suits.  Week three set and hit, she pulled the tags off and chucked the receipts…no turning back.  Week four???

We believed that some serious toning components needed to be built into her program.  By day five, she wore one of the bathing suits that only three weeks ago, didn’t like her…Now it lived her!!

She made great goals that had time commitments and a personal need, which worked for her.

I told you all this to tell you this story.  This week I was with a couple of my cousins who wanted to do fitness programs to help offset the aging process.  We sat down and worked out programs complete with goals and rewards, then we went to a gym to show them the exercises and how to use the equipment properly.

At the end of the session we went to a restaurant where they ordered drinks and the most fattening things on the menu.  All I could say was WTF??!!??

Their justification for these bone headed choices?? The work they had just done would offset the crap they were about to put into their mouths.  The good cancels the bad so they were even. They should have looked at it the other way…the gains they had just made would be shot down.

Sadly this is the thought process too many people have.  On a day by day basis this may be true, but on a month to month basis, the damage that occurs within your body far exceeds any benefit that any amount of exercise may offset.

The moral of this is simple…set good goals, reward yourself on attaining them and always consider the long-term destruction even small indulgences may cause to your over all goals.

Have you shared your goals?

You have to start with a plan

One of the most often overlooked, but very important component of any fitness program, is goal setting.  I talked about it previously here and essentially laid out the reasons you really need to do goal setting as part of your program…Recap;

1. Write down your goal(s).

2. Be specific and reasonable with yourself

3. Set a date to accomplish your goal with incremental bench marks to measure progress

4. Have a partner to help hold you accountable…ME!

Once you have done that, you HAVE to share your plans and goals with your support network.  Most often that will be your family but can extend to co-workers, groups you belong to or your fellow exercise team mates. Some of you may not want to tell anyone for numerous reasons. They don’t want to hear again that you are going to lose weight. They won’t believe you can do it.  You’ve said so many times before, etc.  Those may be valid reasons, but that could be because you never truly committed yourself to your goals.  But that will never happen again, right?

Your family needs to know your plans and know that you are committed.

When you involve your family in your plans you build a support group that is there for you on the days when you need that little push to stay with your program.  They are your cheerleaders and sounding boards when you need to vent frustrations.  You are on a journey and all journeys need support to complete.  They will help you on those days when your will power says, “Eat the ice cream sundae.”

If you keep your plans a secret you may inadvertently offend a loved one by turning down that extra helping of dessert, or choose not to have the glass of wine with your dinner.  Aunt Ellie made the Peach Cobbler from scratch and you just can’t say no.  Well, if Aunt Ellie knew, maybe she wouldn’t have tried to force feed you the calories you don’t need.

Be excited about what you are doing.  Share your experience and success, no matter how small they may seem.  Your family and friends will recognize your excitement and do everything they can to help you make your next goals.  If you go to a friends for dinner it’s natural for them to want to feed you and feed you well.  Let them know what your program is all about so that you don’t feel awkward saying no, and they won’t feel awkward as you turn down food they offer.

In the end, your goals will be easier to attain and your program will be easier to maintain with a support network around you.  We have more power in a group than we do on our own.

It's a one way street

So let me know, have your loved ones ever inadvertently sabotaged your weight loss goals?  Have you kept your program and goals a secret because you are afraid you may fail again?  Even better, tell us how your family or friends have supported you.  Share your story with us so we can all learn from your experiences.